Showing signs of neglect
Ok, so my blog is obviously showing signs of neglect. Seems I go in spurts where I write write write, and then I don’t and I don’t and I don’t. The launch of the school year has been a very busy one. Seems it snuck up on all of us and now its pedal to the metal. Seems a big thing I am seeing right now is lots of anxiety it kiddos. Teens seem to be trying to figure out where they fit in, and younger clients seem to feel that everything is moving all around them and they’re being left behind.
But the hurriedness of school can also bring back a routine and schedule that grounds many families and can help children feel more secure in knowing what they are doing when, and what’s around the corner. (note: parents – you have to inform your child of what is coming up, what the schedule is, what is around the corner – don’t assume they know from just overhearing you talk). It can also be a time for kids to try on a new way of being, make new friends, get in a different groove. If you see them branching out and doing something new, give them some kudos – it can be scary. Ask them what kind of support they need in this new school year. Kids who had a class full of friends last year might feel lonely or left out in a new class of kids they don’t know. Teens may have changed quite a bit over the summer – taller, more lankly, or things that can suck like acne – and might need a bit more support and confidence boosting at home. of course with teens you have to be a bit sly in how you complement them – but they’ll hear it regardless, as long as you are genuine.
okay, bye for now. 
